To laugh often and much;

To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of people;

To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;


To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;

To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived

This is to have succeeded.

-Bessie Stanley & Ralph Waldo Emerson


Sunday, December 13, 2009

a little error...


Amidst the hustle and bustle of the writing, printing, folding, and mailing of our annual Christmas letter, we noticed a little mistake. See if you can catch it:

December 2009

Merry Christmas, dear family and friends!

We are 2 ½ years into our journey of marriage: the better we love God, the better we love each other. He is always faithful to our needs, and even our wants from time to time. See what He did for us in 2010:

Joe successfully concluded his first year of teaching at Pioneer Middle School in DuPont, WA. Towards the end of the school year, he was approached by his principal regarding a possible change in his teaching assignment. Despite budget cuts in surrounding districts as a result of the recession, Steilacoom Historical District No. 1 had funds available for full-time choir teachers for both Pioneer and Steilacoom HS! Joe was given 24 hours to decide which position he’d rather take. After listing the pros and cons of each position and, of course, much prayer, Joe took the high school position. And I must say, he is well suited for it: he enjoys the challenge of molding rowdy students into fine singing ensembles. Or shall we say rowdy singing ensembles, most days. He has a gift for recognizing raw young talent and aiding students in honing their craft for post-secondary aspirations or for encouraging their passion for singing. He teaches an all-female choir, a beginning coed choir, an advanced coed choir, a select coed ensemble, and a music theory/history/guitar class. Hoping to add to his teaching endorsements, he is also teaching a first year French class. After a strenuous nine month long search, God blessed us with a new church home, Oberlin Congregational, in Steilacoom, and in October Joe hosted his first high school choir concert there. If you are interested in listening to a portion of it, go to www.youtube.com, type “zachwingfield” into the “Search” field, hit Search, then scroll down to “SHS Pinnacle Choir.” (However, he did not compose any of the music, contrary to what it says.)

Joe continues to sing on the side - and get paid for it too! He fills in as tenor from time to time for friends in the choir Sunday mornings at St. Mary’s Episcopal in Lakewood or at Trinity Lutheran in Parkland. Joe is not just The Music Man, he’s Car Repair/Maintenance Man too. He has enjoyed many a Sunday afternoon under the hood of one of our cars, tinkering with windshield wipers and flushing radiators.

The question of graduate school for choral conducting in Joe’s future remains just that: a question. Since it took him 7.5 years to get from high school graduation to having a “real job,” and since he just transferred this year to a new assignment in his district, he does not feel like going back to school is a good idea right now. He wants to invest in the students and music program at SHS for a few more years before moving on to anything different. Plus, now that he has a steady and well-paying job, he is ready to put his hand to the plow and let Katy pursue her goals.


December marks 13 months as a Nursing Assistant for Katy at ManorCare in Gig Harbor. She is finding what draws her to nursing is the direct involvement in the rawness of the human experience. Although she strove to build report with her coworkers and worked diligently to understand and meet the needs of her geriatric patients, she intends to apply for a hospital CNA position come the start of the new year. It’s time for a change! She wants as many new experiences in the healthcare field as a CNA before committing to nursing school full time. It’ll be another 12 months until she is eligible to apply for an RN or LPN program. Meanwhile, she is taking one prerequisite a quarter at Tacoma Community College. Last summer, she took Cell Biology. At the time you are reading this, she is studying for her final in Chemistry while pumping herself up for Inorganic Chemistry and Psychology 100 for winter quarter. Many a Sunday afternoon passes with Katy and her chemistry book at the local Starbucks. The light, although faint, is still visible at the end of the tunnel, and the prospect of realizing her vocational goals in 3+ years is what fuels those arduous late nights in the chemistry lab.

In November, Katy decided to start a blog, thinking that it might be nice to keep the parents and friends abreast of the everyday goings-on of “The Lindquist Two”. If you’re lucky, she might have posted the third blog entry by the time you read this. Check it out at: http://katylindquist.blogspot.com



Our kitties, Leo and Millie, continue to be our pride and joy- as long as they don’t mess the carpet (not that they have) or scratch the couch (not that they haven’t). They are our constant companions everyday, helping Katy fold the laundry and Joe grade papers.



We had the pleasure of hosting Joe’s parents for a week in June. Since they hail from Fargo, we only get to see them about twice a year (three if we are lucky). Katy tried her hand at cooking for her in-laws and Joe was only too happy to go for lots of walks around Chambers Bay Golf Course. We took a quick jog down I-5 to Katy’s parents’ house in Oregon and, all together, drove over to Cannon Beach on the coast. Thankfully, we’ll see both sets of parents this Christmas.



We love you all! We welcome all emails, cards, photos, and even phone calls!

Keep in touch.

Thinking of you,




If you guessed that we typed "2010" instead of "2009" at the beginning of the letter, you've guessed correctly! We were at Kinko's one Saturday night and just before feeding the master copy into the copy machine, I noticed it. We debated running home and fixing it but decided against it. Hence, to all our family and friends who received a letter this year, we apologize in advance for my last-minute obvious doctoring of our Christmas letter to read "2009" instead of "2010".



The picture is from when we went to Steilacoom's annual Christmas tree lighting at Town Hall. Santa read "The Night Before Christmas" and Joe's all-girl choir, Celestial Singers performed.